Reasons Why I Love My Girlfriend

Joshua Ochieng
4 min readJun 2, 2021

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We are both home in our Hearts

That is the longest relationship that I have ever been in and it’s also the same for her. Many said that we wouldn’t make it and at the end of the day, we would just end up hurting each other. That has yet to happen, haters. I really love the girl that I am with, and here are good reasons why.

I have talked to many people over a set period of time. Each has their own way of approaching someone. One person I know would approach a girl by giving her a nice long message (No offense to him, please understand) that sounded more like a job application. Another guy might simply extend a formal invitation to the girl to join him in his bedroom for a short-term event and the next guy would use his expertise of women to talk his way into them like a hacker trying to break into a computer. Once I was with one of my friends and we went to a hardware store for some stuff.

While we were at the cashier paying for the items, he was openly flirting with the cashier and she appeared to be enjoying it. I suppose he could have asked her for her number but for some reason, he appeared to have stopped at the last minute. I’m a lot different when it comes to stuff like that.

When we first started talking, I found her cute. I liked her black hair, her warm smile that you could easily spot in a large crowd, and her sexy waist size makes her so “yummy”.

The next thing is how nice she is… most of the time. Hey we all have our bad days. My girlfriend is one of the sweetest people I have ever known. She’s always smiling and happy unless of course something is going on.

Honestly, honesty (no pun intended) is one of the most important factors when it comes to me being with someone. It wouldn’t be possible to be with someone if you didn’t trust them, right? Because of this, we have the ultimate transparency in our relationship. We let each other see everything that goes on in our lives. Why, because we live in a world with lots of external influences that could lead us into bad things. And am no Saint here but we have all our skeletons.

My girlfriend really cares about me, and I really care about her too. I always do everything I possibly can to be there for her despite the fact we are on different fields. I have never met a girl that cares about me as much as she does. She is also there for me all of the time. She always asks me questions like,Are you doing okay? Have you eaten lunch / dinner?

My girlfriend never gets bored with me, well that is debatable.. Most of the time she is interested in the things I do. Well, fast forward 3 years and a few months and she still hasn’t gotten bored with me. A few months back, we were working on an experiment on our phones, and surprisingly, she didn’t get all like, I don’t do stuff like this, you do it. We failed at our test, but she never gave up.

These next two things are very important. I love my girlfriend because we are able to not only handle problems together, but also problems with each other. When one of us is having an issue with something, we go to the other person for help. We have a quick recovery time when it comes to arguments. We may come really close to breaking up, but after we argue and start talking again, it’s always on a peaceful note.

Finally, I love my girlfriend because she was only person that my grandma approved of. She died years ago but still active on my spiritual life, and now, my girlfriend is the only person that I’m used to being around 24/7, and yet she is so far away at times.

Well its over 3 years now, we still haven’t lost touch and head strong for each other. I want to propose to her soon cause I can’t wait anymore for her to be my Wife and the mother of my children.

I love you 24/7 Sugar

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Joshua Ochieng
Joshua Ochieng

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